While reading O Mag's October issue, I came across the popular urgent/important matrix developed by Stephen Covey Sr. (the dad of Stephen Covey, Jr. - ok, I actually thought there was only 1 Stephen Covey, the author!).
The matrix allows you to categorize activities based on urgency and importance.
Come to think of it, the things that are in Quadrant 2 are usually the things that we really want to do in life but since there aren't any pressing deadlines, we end up prioritizing Quadrant 3 tasks where we are fooled by the urgency of unimportant tasks (e.g. listening to a demanding colleague who endlessly whines). So while there are things that we really HAVE to do (Quadrant 1), let's make sure to also do the things that we WANT to do (Quadrant 2), otherwise, we're taking out the fun out of life:)